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How To Talk To Girls

A major part of the SeductionFAQ philosophy is to embrace “Conversational Seduction” fully. Indeed, if a man can’t talk to a woman then he won’t be successful at seduction. In today’s blog article, I am going to cover this important aspect of dating and seduction.

Of course, you can just take the ultimate “shortcut” – just use the fractionation seduction technique – to shortcut the whole process and immediately build emotional rapport. But if you build the necessary foundation then you will be in a good position to succeed at dating in the long haul.

Can you still count the amount of times that you have tried calling a girl, but never really knew what to say by the time she picked up the phone? Do you have trouble talking to girls, in general? Don’t worry. A lot of other guys have trouble talking to girls, too. Most of my clients cite this inability to talk to women as their number one sticky point when it comes to relationships.

On that note, a lot of guys also seem to have trouble figuring out what to talk about, which subjects to bring up, what kind of language to use and how to behave while they talk to girls, amongst other things.

You might not know this, but there are actually several things that you will need to keep in mind before you try talking to a girl.

The first thing you need to keep in mind is that girls usually evaluate guys based on certain things that they see in their personalities, including their manner of talking. So, if you want to find out how to have meaningful conversations with women and get the results that you want out of the matter, then keep reading.

Conversational Seduction Techniques You Need To Know

  • Make sure you start things off on the right foot.

In today’s day and age, girls expect more than just a “hi” or a “hello” when they get approached by a guy. They also expect better conversations from a guy overall.

Sadly, the majority of guys nowadays get their opening lines or statements completely wrong and, because of this, they end up failing when they try to talk to girls from the very beginning. Ideally, you should try and start your conversation with something extraordinary that will really catch your target’s attention. Remember: girls won’t be interested in keeping a conversation with you unless they see something unique in you and your personality.

  • Do not overdo it.

Girls tend to get turned off by guys who talk far too much. One of the things that  girls tend to look for in a guy’s personality is mystery. In fact, if you divulge too much information about yourself too soon, you could lose that trait right away and, in turn, lose her interest at the same time. So, try to keep things simple and keep your conversations with a girl as short as possible in order to maintain that air of mystery and keep her intrigued for longer. This is also the cornerstone of all “female psychology loopholes” (watch this video to know what it’s all about) – to retain a certain aura while building attraction.

  • Avoid awkward silences.

Awkward silences are sometimes inevitable. Unfortunately, they are never a good thing if you want to impress a girl. So, if you feel an awkward silence coming on or end up finding yourself in one when talking to a girl that you like, try your best to spice things back up as soon as possible; otherwise, she might just send you straight into the boring box and forget about you altogether.

Solution to this – run multiple conversational threads. Read this blog post to know more.

  • Cut your conversations short.

When it comes to talking to girls, cutting your conversations short would always be advisable. No matter how funny or how interesting your conversations might be going, you have to leave the girl hanging every time, so that she keeps on wanting more from you in the future.

The “Hook Point” – What You Need To Know

The “hook point” is when the girl keeps the conversation going whenever there is an uncomfortable silence. This is one of the major Seduction Signals (SS), and when you have reached this point then move on to the next step in seduction – to use conversation to generate intense feelings and associate those feelings with you. For a set of seduction vids on how to do this, go here.

What To Say To A Girl You Like

Even though it is still a huge mystery to a lot of men the world over, starting a conversation with a girl you like really isn’t that hard. It only becomes hard once you try to keep an interesting conversation going with her. As such, it would be vital to learn what to say to a girl you like.

Pickup Lines…?

Several guys out there seem to think that all they need to do to win a girl over is to throw great pickup lines her way. Now, although cheesy pickup lines might work on several girls, most of them won’t be very impressed by them. As a matter of fact, some of them might even get turned off by them completely. There are some useless sites on pickup lines (such as this) which you should avoid completely if you want to be good at dating and seducing women!

Man talking to a woman

Learning the art of conversational seduction is essential to any man

Because of this, it would be vital to learn what to say to a girl you like and how to maintain a good conversation going at the same time instead. For starters, one of the things that you should try to avoid like a a plague would be a bout of awkward silence. Knowing exactly what to say to a girl you like has to be automatic or it will feel rehearsed.

Naturally, you won’t just want to engage a girl through conversation, either. You will want to create some sexual tension, too. If you say, “Wow. The sky looks so gloomy. It will probably rain later.”, you won’t create any kind of sexual tension. It will just make you look boring. However, saying something like, “Did you know good mornings result from good nights the night before?” can create sexual tension with a girl almost immediately. Of course, fractionation is perhaps the best method on creating sexual tension – more on that below.

Also, building up sexual tension is important as you want to display a certain amount of male dominance which is highly attractive – I have previously blogged about this here. Also, conversational seduction skills are the cornerstone of the so-called “boyfriend destroyer techniques” – and also if you want to turn a life-long friend into your girlfriend. Proper seduction techniques are a must especially when you’re building up sexual tension.

Hypnosis Through Conversation – A Primer On “How To Seduce”

There are actually a lot of effective methods that you can use to hypnotize girls through conversation and make them addicted to you. Once you grab their attention, you can then learn what to say to a girl you like to maintain and stimulate her interest even further.

If you aren’t particularly handsome or rich, you will have to turn to something else that will work for you, like humor. If you can get a girl to laugh, you are sure to win her undivided attention in no time. Besides, laughter can break down a girl’s defenses altogether, winning her over and give you the ultimate advantage in the world of dating.

This doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to turn into a stand-up comedian, though; just interject some witty quips and funny anecdotes into your conversations every now and then and don’t be afraid to laugh at yourself. This will help you build rapport with your dream girl in no time – and this is especially true when you want to approach and pick up women you meet at public places.

It would also be important not to monopolize your conversations with girls. If you do, you might just look egotistical in their eyes. Instead, give them chances to speak and then listen with genuine interest. It would help to ask questions about their jobs, hobbies and background, as well.

Once you master what to say to a girl you like, you will no longer have any trouble enduring uncomfortable bouts of awkward silence again. Remember: talking to girls is nothing but a game, so make sure you emerge a winner by preparing some witty observations and good stories beforehand.

what to say to her to make her like you?

Ability to create emotional rapport with a woman is essential to seduction success

The best way to prepare is to memorize the step-by-step “emotional value elicitation” method which is a large part of the fractionation technique. For a full treatment of the technique (and a video), go to this link -

Watch it, and thank me later. :)