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How to Make Her Leave Her Man for You

When you meet a woman and have a great conversation with her, you might end up learning later on that she actually has a boyfriend. Or perhaps you already have a great female friend who already happens to have one. Either way, knowing that a woman is taken can be very frustrating. In fact, a lot of men get discouraged when they are surrounded by such intriguing and attractive women.


In a nutshell, there are two choices that you can make when it comes to this: you can just let her go, or you can take action. Now, this doesn’t mean that you should ruin the relationship that she is in if she is already perfectly happy. However, if she seems unhappy, or if you desperately want her to be yours, then here are several steps on how to make her leave her man for you.

Summer love and sunshineStep 1: Analyze your relationship.

That’s right. That isn’t a typo. You don’t need to analyze her current relationship. You have to analyze your own relationship with her. After all, if she has already thrown you into the friend zone, then her boyfriend won’t be the problem, but your friendship with her. Women usually hesitate before dating a good friend because they don’t want to ruin their friendship with them.

In some cases, women are such good friends with a man that they won’t even consider dating them even if they were single. This might be the case with you. There’s a reason why the word “friend zone” is already added in the Oxford Dictionary– it’s real, and it hurts. If you are stuck in it, then you have to claw yourself out of that friend zone as soon as possible and act accordingly to turn into a man that she might date.

Step 2: Act as if she were single.

After analyzing your relationship, you can start thinking about things that you can do together and what you shouldn’t do whenever she’s around. You should never bring up her boyfriend, for example, so you can gauge how much she actually loves him.

If she doesn’t bring him up in conversation much, then she probably isn’t that interested in him. This will make it much easier for you to snatch him from under his nose. All you have to do is flirt with her a little more, talk to her the way she wants to be talked to, and get her to find you more attractive as time goes by.

Step 3: Compare your relationship skills.


This time, it is time to compare yourself with her boyfriend in a very subtle manner. To start things off, you should talk out what a bad boyfriend you would make because you love life too much. This might sound counterintuitive, but women love challenges, so this will work. You shouldn’t leave things there, though. You should also transition your conversation into how much you actually love life. This will show her how fun and exciting of a man you can be.

By following the aforementioned steps, you can steal a woman’s attention towards you, and win her heart eventually even if she currently has a boyfriend – believe it. Once you succeed, she might even show you some signs that she’s beginning to fall for you and leave her man for you altogether.

How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend

How can I turn a friend into a girlfriend?

Question: “I know this girl quite well and we are always together – in a group, anyway – at least twice a week. As cliche as this sounds, I like her a lot and want to find out if she likes me, too. The thing is: I have no idea how to find out if she does. I asked her if she was free for a coffee once and her response was ‘probably not’. This was a few months ago and now, I have no idea how to go about getting her to like me… but as a boyfriend. Should I give up or are there other things out there that I can try in order to succeed with her?”

SeductionFAQ’s Answer: Watch what she does as opposed to what she says. Touching you means she likes you. Lingering means she likes you. Defending you from other men that are around means she might like you. Those are examples of how you should judge her. But what you should truly concentrate on is how much touching there is in your relationship. If you never touch her, she will never see you as a boyfriend; this is probably why she gave you the ’probably not’ response. Just be more aggressive overall and touch her in a more sexual manner. BUT DON’T FORCE YOURSELF ON HER.

How can I go from Mr. Nice Guy to Mr. Nice Guy…with a Gorgeous Girlfriend?

Question: “Basically, I want to learn how to move from being the nice guy to being the datable guy. I think it might be a bit too late to get this girl – heck, I’m not even sure if she’s worth it – but I want to know how I can ensure a relationship next time instead of constantly hoping things will work out. I’m so sick of being Mr. Nice Guy. I want a gorgeous girlfriend, darn it!”

SeductionFAQ’s Answer: Girls may love nice guys, but they simply don’t get TURNED ON by them. What you need to do is learn how to turn women on by touching her and by being dominant.

Here are the fast and dirty basics:

  1. You need more touching. If you are seen as Mr. Nice Guy, then you probably aren’t doing enough of this. Simply put, you need to let your hands do the talking. Now, this doesn’t mean you need to make random gestures here and there; this means you have to touch her sides and her arms with your hands. This will help you a lot.
  2. Be dominant. Lead. Make decisions. The type of guys that women like are the semi-dangerous ones who can take charge of any situation. So, you might want to change your personality to match that description. Avoid saying “maybe” and stick to a straightforward “no” or “yes”. Also, never force women to make any of your decisions on dates. Tell them where to go and why they would love it there.

If you follow these two basic things, you will be a step farther away from the “friend zone”. Now once you’re out of the friend zone, get cracking by using fractionation in order to get her wildly attracted to you. A simple guide on how to use fractionation is contained in this video.