Dating Techniques

How to Attract a Girl Who Already Has a Boyfriend

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you met a beautiful girl and got along with her incredibly well, just to find out she already had a boyfriend? Well, let’s face it: attractive girls are usually already taken. This means that you have competition right from the very beginning. Don’t worry just yet, though. Believe it or not, you can learn how to attract a girl who already has a boyfriend and still hook up with her in the end. With the resources inside SeductionFAQ.com she’ll be yours in no time at all…

Before you learn how to attract a girl who already has a boyfriend, though, you need to know this: girls who are already happy with their boyfriends won’t be easy to win over. In fact, in those situations, you might not be able to do much – period. On the other hand, however, if a girl decides to hang out with you a lot despite having a boyfriend, that would be a surefire sign that she isn’t satisfied with her current relationship. That, in turn, means that you have very high chances at learning how to pick up a girl who has a boyfriend and succeeding in the long run.

So, are you ready to learn how to attract a girl who already has a boyfriend? Then let’s begin!

How to Attract a Girl With A Boyfriend – Essential Boyfriend Destroyer Techniques You Must Know

Connect with her on an intensely emotional level.

The real key to attracting a girl who already has a boyfriend would be to simply use a lot of emotions. There is no chance in hell for you to rationalize with a girl and convince her to leave her boyfriend to be with you – remember that. So, what you have to do instead is use the right emotions to make her feel happy whenever she is around you. Once she realizes how much happier she is in your presence compared to when she is with her boyfriend, she will start wondering why she is with the guy she is currently with in the first place.

Boyfriend Annihilator — You can completely win her over from her boyfriend if you use female loophole techniques (**such as this**), but most of the time that could be overkill.

An incredibly effective way to connect with a woman emotionally is to use this women psychology technique called fractionation. It’s a systematic method on making a woman go through an emotional roller coaster to make her feel deeply intense emotional rapport with you. More about this seduction technique later in this article.

Let her comparison shop.

If you want to learn how to win a girls heart who has a boyfriend subtly, you have to get the girl to talk to you about her current relationship.

Once you do this, she is sure to mention some of her boyfriend’s shortcomings. When this happens, try to make yourself look better by capitalizing on those shortcomings. Remember: nobody is flawless. Every girl has been lied to by a boyfriend or has felt neglected in a relationship at one point or another. For example, the boyfriend could either be overbearing / dominant or a pushover. So, bring her current relationship problems to the fore and try to show her that you would treat her much better. Once you establish this, show some examples of similar situations and times where you treated a girl right. She is sure to fall in love with you in no time.

Amplify her boyfriend’s weaknesses even more.

Although you already capitalized on her boyfriend’s shortcomings, try to amplify his weaknesses even more by asking her what her perfect guy would be like. Although these are sneaky ways to attract a girl who already has a boyfriend, they actually work (see Boyfriend Destroyer techniques). See, once a girl realizes how many shortcomings and weaknesses her boyfriend has, she will start to compare him to the ideal guy that she has in her head. Her boyfriend will definitely look flawed in comparison and will end up in a very disadvantaged position (he might even get friend-zoned!). Ultimately, the key here would be to simply bypass her switches of guilt in the end, so that she won’t feel bad leaving her boyfriend for you.

Become an alpha male.

how to seduce women with boyfriends — Taking a woman away from her boyfriend is not hard, but you must be willing to use somewhat “underhanded” techniques such as the October Man Sequence or ShogunMethod.com.

If you want to learn how to get a girl who has a boyfriend and actually succeed in the end, you have to become a real alpha male and really be able to attract girls, in general. All girls are attracted to confident guys with high social status – remember that. This is because they feel safe in their presence and like it when guys make up their own minds about things. So, in order to amp up your levels of attractiveness and win over the girl with the boyfriend with ease, you have to become a real alpha male first. You’ll find loads of alpha male techniques here at SeductionFAQ.com. Alternatively you can also use a female loophole technique such as the October Man routine to create an imagery in her mind that you are the ultimate alpha male. Also, persuasion and mind control techniques can be handy.

Psyche yourself up for the kill.

During this step, you will have to look at yourself and ask yourself why you want to attract a girl who already has a boyfriend to begin with. You will also have to ask yourself how to get her to like you and why she should leave her current boyfriend for you. Basically, you have to get down to the very bottom of these questions and forget all of the things that you hate about yourself for a moment. Convince yourself that you are worth it and convince yourself that she is worth it and you are sure to succeed in learning how to get a girl that has a boyfriend and actually get her in the end.

Get her to leave her boyfriend.

Once you have properly psyched yourself up for the kill while learning how to win a girls heart who has a boyfriend, you can actually go in for the kill and try to get her to leave her boyfriend. To do this, just cozy up to her and ask her exactly what she wants out of a relationship. Then, ask her to compare her dream relationship with the relationship that she has right now. She will then realize that she is currently with a loser who simply doesn’t measure up to what she really wants out of a relationship. That is when you can swoop in, escalate physically, seduce her and completely win her over from the loser she is currently dating.

So there have it: the easiest ways on how to seduce a girl who already has a boyfriend. Essentially, the most powerful method would still be to use her emotions and take control of it, though, so make sure you use her emotions while following all of the steps mentioned above. Don’t forget to ensure that she doesn’t feel guilty about leaving her boyfriend, either.

Using Fractionation Seduction To Completely Annihilate Her Boyfriend

The strongest technique on destroying boyfriends is, not surprisingly, also the most controversial. Fractionation is one of the six “forbidden patterns” (alongside the infamous October Man Sequence) which is said to bestow any man the ultimate “seduction superpowers”.

picture of sigmund freud — **Fractionation** is one of the many seduction techniques adapted from the pioneering works of Sigmund Freud

First adapted to be used in seduction from the works of renowned psychologists Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung, the technique has been modified into the current form by seduction masters like John Wilde and Derek Rake. Many dating gurus are against teaching this technique because it can be misused to manipulate women emotionally. It can indeed be dangerous in the hands of the immoral!

Therefore, before you proceed with clicking this link, you agree that you will never use this technique to harm women. What goes around comes around, and if you misuse this technique then the consequences could be disastrous.

How To Use Fractionation To Seduce Women

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How To Pick Up Girls

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Learn How To Pick Up Girls Without Turning Into A Lame Pickup Artist

A SeductionFAQ (https://seductionfaq.com/blog) reader emailed this last Saturday:-

“The thought of becoming a pickup artist really hasn’t vibed with me, no matter what style it is – extravagant or natural. Still, I want choices when it comes to women. In fact, I hope to have great girlfriends that will make other guys cry. 🙂 Is this possible without actually becoming a pickup artist?” -Albert S., London, UK

My answer

I suffered from the exact same problem before, which is why I take different routes in becoming better with women.Well, if you use the tactics that I teach here at seductionfaq.com/blog, you can get any woman you want without having to become a so-called “pickup artist”. And, if you wish to get the entire system for yourself, just take a look at the FractionationX system.

Picture of girl getting picked up — The fastest way to pick up a girl is to use the ShogunMethod.com technique. Good if you’re in a hurry and need results fast.

Seriously, go check out the fractionation technique. There is a lot of hype around the technique, but it remains one of the most coveted seduction tactic out there today simply because it works like magic. I don’t advocate short-cutting your way to dating success, but if there’s a “magic bullet” as far as dating and relationships is concerned then fractionation is definitely it.

Now with that out of the way…

It is completely understandable if you want to learn how to pick up girls but are scared to become a guy who walks up to every girl that he sees just to increase his chances of winning a girl over. Well, the good news is that you don’t have to be one of those guys if you want to learn how to make a girl your girlfriend. That’s right. There are various methods out there that don’t require depending on lady luck to win girls over. As a matter of fact, if you already know a girl that you would like to date, then that would be even better.

One thing that you will need to do, though, while learning ways to seduce a woman would be to take risks. You should also accept the fact that you might not win your dream girl over in the end. After all, not everybody can win the girl of their dreams. However, if you are constantly scared of rejection and always play it safe in the dating game, then you really won’t get anywhere anyway.

So, here are some tips on how to make a girl your girlfriend without approaching random girls on relying on dumb luck.

Tip Number One: Know exactly what you want out of a girl.

Truth be told: if you are one of those guys who claims you want to learn how to make a girl your girlfriend but don’t actually know what you want out of a girl, then you really won’t get anywhere. If you know exactly what kind of girl you would like to attract, though, then you have much higher chances of finding the perfect girlfriend for you in the end. All you really have to do is find ways to meet girls who meet your girlfriend criteria.

Tip Number Two: Widen your social circle to meet more girls.

Although this is one of the best tips on how to make a girl your girlfriend, not a lot of guys put it to use. Naturally, if you want this tip to work out for you, you will have to have a wide social circle to begin with. Keep in mind that social websites don’t count in this department, though, so you will have to meet a lot of people in person – remember that.

Naturally, if the girl that you want to seduce is already a “friend” then you will need to know the specific strategies on turning a friend into a girlfriend.

Tip Number Three: Always look presentable.

Whether you want to learn how to make a girl your girlfriend or not, make it a point to look presentable at all times. This will show girls that you have a positive and good attitude, as well as a great personality. See, girls tend to look for guys who are interesting and act like real men, so the way you act and look can actually make a huge difference when it comes to getting girls to go out with you in the long run.

On that note, make sure you are always polite and never crude and that you watch your language whenever you are around a girl that you like. If you aren’t, then you can lose her interest extremely fast. So, again: make sure you act and look presentable, and keep her curious, so that she will want to keep seeing you in the future.

Tip Number Four: Stay interested in her, too.

On that note, when it comes to learning how to use psychology tactics to attract women, you have to make sure that you pay close attention to her and focus all of her attention on her. This means maintaining eye contact whenever she speaks and avoiding looking at other girls while you’re at it. Also, whenever you go on a date with a girl that you like, keep your cell phone on silent. Additionally, whether it vibrates or not, never bring it out. Just ignore it.

While talking to the girl, make sure you always have a constant flow of conversation going, as well. This will show her that you are genuinely interested in her. If you notice her eyes beginning to wander or if your conversation starts to get boring, try to make some quick changes, so that you don’t lose her interest in any way.

If you have already been on a date with the same girl numerous times, then make sure you send her text messages on a regular basis, too. This will let her know that she is on your mind and it will definitely make her smile.

Tip Number Five: Make some changes as needed.

If you are interested in a girl that you have already known for quite a while, then you will have to focus on making some changes when it comes to your personality. For starters, you have to stop looking at her and treating her as friend to ensure that she stops looking at you and treating you as a friend in return.

If you are having trouble doing this, then just start treating her like your girlfriend from now on. Remember that women like dominant men – if you need help in this area then read this handy guide. This will totally change how she perceives you since your actions and words towards her are going to change, too. This might sound easy, but it is actually very effective. Try it!

Also, the key to progress in relationships is knowing when to escalate.

Tip Number Six: Practice more subtle strategies.

Once you have gotten the aforementioned tips down pat, you have to start taking things more seriously and incorporate subtle strategies on how to make a girl your girlfriend.

Hypnosis would be one of these strategies. Morals aside, this particular strategy can be a very powerful way to change how a girl things and get her to see you as a lover instead of just a friend. One particular hypnosis strategy called fractionation can even make your dream girl fall for you in less than 15 minutes – believe it.

If used properly while learning how to make a girl your girlfriend, fractionation can actually make any girl see you as a boyfriend since she will end up investing a lot of feelings on you. Once this stage has been successfully reached, it will then be your choice whether you still want to pursue a relationship with her or not.

If you want to learn about fractionation, then check out this free video.

How To Be Dominant With Women

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The Key To Ultimate Dominance With Women

Question: “I have no trouble talking to girls, but I’m simply not sexual enough most of the time, so they end up seeing me as nothing more than just a friend. I have tried using sexual innuendo, but to no avail. Also, do you have any tips on conveying dominant body language in a party or club environment? Should I maybe lead her to certain places, sit her down properly, place my hand on her back? I just really need to show some sexuality or dominance somehow.”

SeductionFAQ’s Answer: Let us concentrate on dominance. If you want to portray dominant body language, you have to lead. All of the things you have mentioned above are great. Seriously, if you concentrate on thinking in a dominant manner, your actions will be dominant, too. So, try this focus out instead of looking for new tactics:

“I have self control. I can decide things on my own and decide things for other people. I am capable of making anybody feel happy and safe.” Don’t just think it, though. Make sure you really feel this way. This might take several tries, but after you master this focus, you will always have dominant body language whatever you do.

How should I hold a girl’s hand?

Question: “I don’t know why but something doesn’t feel right whenever I try to hold a girl’s hand. I feel like I’ll get rejected – that she’ll drop my hand if I make my move or some shit.”

SeductionFAQ’s Answer: Looks like we have the same history. You know how my dating techniques work and you know how you can meet women. Your question is mere proof that meeting these women truly is about mind over matter. As a matter of fact, I’m willing to bet that you can be completely unstoppable after you pass by this particular roadblock.

Here’s what you should do: When crossing the road, take her hand and protect her through traffic by leading her through it. The first two times you do this, drop her hand afterwards, but after the third time, don’t let go of her hand. This always works; it’s like magic. I’m looking forward to hearing another story of success from you. 🙂

How can I ignite more passion in women?

Question: “I find myself getting tired of games and even women. Now, don’t take this the wrong way: I have no interest in switching teams. I think it just has something to do with the women that I meet, really. But what else can I do if I’ve lost interest in the games and if I only want to have sex with women? What can I do if a couple of hours is becoming too long to listen to their nonsense in order to get them into bed? Plus, these women generally hardly do anything anymore when we do end up making out or having sex.”

SeductionFAQ’s Answer: Truthfully, you sound jaded because of your lack of success in the female department. I’m not trying to insult you or anything; I’ve been through it, too.

This usually happens if you’re going through a bad breakup or a low streak. Unfortunately, I can’t give you a step-by-step guide on overcoming this phase since time is really the only thing that will cure it. But I can teach you how to ignite more passion in women overall using a simple female psychology trick. This technique comes in the form of three basic steps:

Take note of something that you can call “passionate”. For example, if she talks to her friends excitedly or touches you.
Point this passionate thing out to her.
Mention how much you like that she’s passionate. Then say something like: “I love that you’re so passionate when it comes to your friends. You actually seem to be a very passionate person overall. That’s great.” By doing this, you can ignite more passion out of her. This works every single time – believe it.

How can I meet girls if all I want is to be in a relationship for the long term?

Question: “Do you have any advice for someone who only wants to get into a relationship for the long term? I have no intentions of meeting a woman to sleep with her within a week or a month. I seriously just want a serious relationship where sex doesn’t come up until we know one another very well.”

SeductionFAQ’s Answer: You aren’t the only one with this particular focus; a lot of other men have it, too. But if this is starting to hurt you, you should know that just because a woman has sex with you quickly doesn’t necessarily mean that she isn’t girlfriend material.

As a matter of fact, my most passionate and greatest relationships were with girls whom I had slept with quickly. I would even go so far as to recommend sleeping with a girl as fast as possible f you want a relationship that will last for the long term.

There are many reasons behind this, but they can be summarized into this: an ultra strong bond will be formed with her and she will feel extreme passion for you. Plus, she will end up being much more loyal for years to come. So, if you are hoping to find a great girlfriend, sleep with her – fast. Learn how to seduce a woman to bed quickly – and you will be able to score long term relationships as easily.

How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone

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Am I stuck in the “friend zone”?

Question: “So, if we touch each other, but don’t kiss or have sex yet, would that still be considered the ‘friend zone’?’

Answer: Well, you are basically stuck in the “friend zone” if you aren’t getting anywhere with a girl at all. This usually isn’t that big of a deal, but if the girl has been in your life for several years now and you still haven’t gotten anywhere with her, then you definitely need to concentrate on sexual tension and touch her more (but not in a sleazy way obviously).

How come I felt more successful when I was already taken?

Question: “I still face problems when it comes to women. I sometimes meet one with whom I connect with really well and then, the next time we meet, the connection is suddenly gone. Why are my results so inconsistent?”

Answer: There are two reasons why you are more successful when you are taken:

Thanks to biology, women prefer the men that the competition likes.
Whenever you have a girlfriend, you tend to portray dominance while having outstanding body language because you don’t feel the need to impress other women nor do you have the innate goal to talk to one.

So, to improve your overall results tonight, set a different goal for a change. Instead of aiming to sleep with a woman, aim to simply talk to one. Also, relax more. This will help you give off better body language, too. Remember that the women psychology is wired up to be more sensitive to non-verbal ques, so act accordingly.

Steven, how can I beat you when it comes to women?

Question: “First of all, thanks for the great start, Derek. I have been taking in your SeductionFAQ blog posts; I usually only read it once, though, since I’m busy with college. Still, I can actually approach female strangers now, no matter how scary it is sometimes. […] I want to learn all of this because your blog helped me turn my entire life around, but I do want to be better than you. (No offense, but it is possible, right?)”

Answer: The truth is, I am great with women because of my personal cold hard experiences. When I was still learning all of this, I quit working and spent my time meeting women eight hours a day – if not more. So now, I have the job of helping you do the same thing. I literally speak, write and talk about dating and sex for twelve hours every day.

If you want to know the real secret on how to get better with the ladies, here it is: regardless of how much or how little you have learned about women since the day you were born, you can keep getting better and better if you devote your time to meeting more and more women. Well, SeductionFAQ along with my other programs on how to seduce women can speed up that particular process and turn you into a real master with women in no time.

I hope to hear more success stories from you!

Sonic Seduction Techniques that Make Her Love You Instantly

By Steven Farquhar

Since you are reading this right now, it should be safe to assume that you have no idea how to keep a woman interested in you, let alone make her love you instantly – right? In fact, you probably don’t even know why you don’t. You may even think that you are doing all of the right things, yet simply cannot keep a woman interested in you for some reason.

Are you the kind of man who watches other men succeed with a woman, even though you use the exact same techniques to make her love you instantly? Well, then you are probably doing something wrong in your mannerisms or just aren’t using the right techniques that will showcase your personal talents. So, if you want to finally seal the deal, here are several techniques that will help get her to like you quickly:

1. Say ‘no’ to attachments.

One big problem that a lot of men face all over the world nowadays is that they cannot stop depending on the approval of women. If you tend to be dependent on women, then you definitely need to change this. See, woman don’t like clingy men. In fact, they find them quite annoying. Instead, dominance in a relationship is crucial for attraction.

So, stop caring about whether women approve of the type of man that you are for a change. Once you successfully stop caring, women will start showing more interest in you because you will finally start looking like a prize worth fighting for – believe it.

Do you need help doing this? One way that men show women that they are independent and don’t care about their approval anymore is by dating several women at once. This works because it women will get to see that you have a lot of other options out there besides them and this in itself can change your entire playing field in the long run. This article in GQ magazine addresses the thorny issue of multiple relationships.

Aside from that, you will get a huge boost in confidence knowing that a lot of women are actually interested in you. Your main goal while using this particular technique, though, is to simply realize that men and women deal with relationships completely differently, regardless of how important they might be.

2. Say ‘yes’ to new things.

Before you try out this particular technique to make her love you instantly, you need to know that hypnosis is so effective that it can win any woman over in less than 15 minutes. The morality of hypnosis is questionable, though, and it does come with one particular side effect: the woman you woo will become totally dependent on you in terms of her emotions. Google the term “fractionation” and you will find the necessary knowledge you need to start using hypnosis to seduce women.

In other words, a woman’s emotions will get attached to you in physical and verbal cues if you use hypnosis to make her love you instantly. This means that you will be able to control all of her emotions and make her feel like she has known her all of your life even if you have just met. This will, in turn, make her open up to you like never before.